This is important. A few times in the past year I’ve been speaking at events about consent and rape culture and had well-meaning guys come up after to ask me questions like, “Well what if she says no but I think she’s just playing hard to get? Can I keep asking?” or “What if she says no but I feel like she’s not really saying no?”
People, communicate honestly with your sexual partners. And if someone says no, drop it. Enthusiastic consent doesn’t usually come through pressure or coercion.